Well, hopefully we've hit the brick wall and gone through the pain barrier, as it were.
Had some really bad days - which is why I haven't posted - because I've been sooo tired and felt like the worst mother ever. It's not Daniel's fault, he's a baby and he just acts like all babies - I have to remember that. My priority right now is him, and making him happy. Keeping Terry happy is a must as well. The problem is I've been running around trying to stay awake 24 hours a day so I can be there for both of them all the time, and that just isn't humanly possible! I've been a bit selfish and let Terry let me sleep, and the last 2 nights I went to bed a little bit earlier and it seems to be working wonders.
The kitchen is sparkling, the washing is done and I've even had the ironing board out. Terry and Daniel are both napping now, it's pure bliss. Then later, we can all snuggle together and watch a film 
Things are looking up, for now anyways!